The Bilingual Mommy Script: Speaking Life, Health, and Wisdom into Our Children

The Bilingual Mommy Script: Speaking Life, Health, and Wisdom into Our Children

Every parent has a “mommy script”—those repeated phrases we say to our kids that shape their health, safety, and character. These words become more than reminders; they become anchors of well-being and moral development.

Health, Well-Being, and Safety

The mommy script often sounds like:

• “Wash your hands before you eat.”

• “Buckle up, safety first.”

• “Drink water, not soda.”

Simple, consistent phrases teach children that their bodies are precious and worth protecting.

When repeated with love and clarity, these words form habits that last a lifetime.

Moral and Character Development

Beyond physical health, the mommy script nurtures the heart:

• “Tell the truth, even when it’s hard.”

• “Share with others, it makes life sweeter.”

• “God made you special, and you have a purpose.”

These affirmations guide children toward integrity, kindness, and faith-filled confidence.

Why Targeted Approach Matters

Children thrive when guidance is specific and intentional. A vague “be good” doesn’t carry

the same weight as “use kind words with your sister.” Targeted language helps kids connect

actions with values. It’s not just about rules—it’s about active engagement, showing them

how to live well.

The Power of Everyday Spanish

And here’s the truth: the best way to speak Spanish is to speak Spanish! Seriously. Take what

you learn and apply it to everyday life:

• Morning greetings: “¡Buenos días, mi amor!”

• Mealtime: “¿Quieres más arroz?”

• Safety reminders: “Ten cuidado al cruzar la calle.”

When children hear Spanish in real situations, it stops being a subject and becomes a living

language. Encourage them to ask questions, make mistakes, and laugh along the way. Don’t

be afraid—there are many wonderful people willing to help if you truly want to grow in fluency.

Active Engagement is Key

Whether it’s health, morals, or language, the script works best when paired with active

engagement. Don’t just say “eat healthy”—cook together. Don’t just say “speak Spanish”

—practice together. Children learn by doing, and your words become powerful when they’re

lived out in daily routines.

My Final Thought: 

The bilingual mommy script is more than repetition—it’s a legacy. Every phrase you speak

plants seeds of health, safety, wisdom, and language that will grow into your child’s lifelong

habits and character. Follow my BilingualMommyScript on Instagram @myothertongue and

by using the hashtag #bilingualmommyscript.

Warmly,

 Lisa Renea Shaw

Author of Liam’s Faith Adventures & Aaliyah es Una Chica Especial |amazon.com/author/lisareneashaw | Chief Language Specialist, My Other Tongue Language School |www.myothertongue.com/courses | Educator, Curriculum Designer & Mompreneur | https://linktr.ee/lisareneashaw